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March 28th, 2006 at 04:30 pm

I see kids walking down the street four feet away from the sidewalk and I wonder why their parents never taught them respect. Respect for the fact that my car is a lot heavier then they are and can hurt them pretty bad if I hit them. Respect for the fact that I should not have to wait for them to get out of the way, they should be on the sidewalk! Respect for the fact that my Mother or Father would have given me a lecture all night long if they ever saw me walking down the street.

You wonder why society is going downhill, start with the kids, and in particular the lack of involvement in the kids' lives by their parents. The way the kids glare at you as you drive by, like you owe them more space and your car should not be getting that close to them, disgusts me. When I was a teenager, I was happy, I did not scowl at every car that drove by. My parents talked to me, they also , get ready for this archaic word, *read* to me as a child. I did not sit in front of a television all day, and what I did watch had actors, humans that were like me, Morgan Freidman on the Electric Company teaching me.
Today kids watch teletubbies and boobas or whatever other alien freak contraption that makes stupid irritating noises and numbs the minds of society. I do not want my toddlers making irritating sounds, why do I want their TV shows to teach them to?

What good comes out of watching a show with no words?? I think the Wiggles are completely and utterly worthless, but at least a kid watching them can see humans being stupid and not things that do not exist in this nor any other world. Maybe if the boobahs walked in the street and got run over and maimed by some freaky looking alien vehicle it could at least teach the kids, 'whoa stay off the road...boobah. *insert giggling baby faced sun here*'

They go from mind draining children's shows to violence and absurdity in their youth while mixing in a lot of MTV which glorifies said violence and gangs, drugs, the life that we do not want our kids to grow up to have. Without a parent or grandparent, I add this because of my grandfather, to verbally challenge the images in the minds of our youth, they all grow up wanting to be Puff Daddy, err Puffy Puff, errr Pimp Dilli, err you know who I mean. Nothing against Sean Combs, but his lifestyle is not for everyone.

To elaborate on the Grandfather reference. I recall watching a video on MTV when I was but a wee lad, and I stared in amazement, jaw open codfish style to quote Mary Poppins, and audibly said 'wow' while watching whatever band it was jamming on their guitars while zooming down the highway in a convertible, and disobeying all laws in the process. My Grandfather saw my expression and quickly said, 'if they drove like that in real life they would all be dead and then what would you watch on TV? Who would you listen to on your walkman if all of your favorite musicians and bands went around breaking the laws and were all either dead or in jail?'

I answered 'Johnny Cash' because my Grand Father liked Johnny and because I was a smarta$$. His point sunk in. It was cool to watch the video, but to actually drive like that or emulate the fantasy on the TV as if it were reality would not be so cool. Perhaps this is why I have respect, and the youth of today, without the aid of their parents or grandparents, do not.

6 Responses to “Respect”

  1. contrary1 Says:
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    All this and more are reasons why I hate paying my property taxes, the bulk of which goes to our school district......churning out these uncaring, seemingly entitled young people. I was taught to stay out of the street as well as not walk on anyone elses lawn even!!! I can remember dad telling me the neighbors had a sidewalk for a reason........stay on it!

  2. nanamom Says:
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    Amen and amen! Too many kids think the world owes them and that nothing is their fault.

  3. Jessica Says:
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    I am a 7th grade teacher, and I have been wondering precisely the same thing for 2 years now (since I started teaching middle school). What in the heck is wrong with them now. I have a theory about the decline of our entire society, but that's neither here nor there.

    I had to slam on brakes to keep from hitting one of these precious kids about a month ago, and instead of getting out of my way she turned around and called me a B**** instead.

    So much fun to work with too.

  4. Champion Cheapskate Says:
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    . . . the ignorant bliss of youth. . . hopefully they will grow out of it Smile

  5. Angel Says:
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    Unfortunately for Champion, they won't grow out of it, they will simply grow into the many rude adults we find these days, and even worse, they will probably breed too. As for Jessica's theory, I am sure we can compare notes. A lot of it is just parents refusing to do their job as parents. Sometimes I think my parents generation was the last one to actually instill decency on their kids. I have a child, and her mother and me at times feel so isolated as the the only parents who seem to try to actually raise a child (as opposed to just letting her be a brat and throw her to the wolves). It is moments like that which make me wonder why we don't practice eugenics in this country. Best, and keep on blogging.

  6. krapivnik Says:
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    contrary1, I'm having a hard time finding "walking on the sidewalk" in my school district's approved curriculum. The “uncaring, seemingly entitled young people” you describe are a result of crappy parenting, not crappy education; you apparently learned sidewalk rules from your dad, as it should be. Place the blame where it is due.

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